Hey and howdy there nutty people!
This post won't have any big project reveals or tasty recipes. Won't even have any easy crafts. Actually, nothing creative at all in this post.
I guess this is my first 'rant' of sorts.
If you follow me on Facebook, you saw an update this morning about having to 'unlike' my very first Facebook page. It belongs to someone who is a pretty popular blogger. But, it seems like all I ever see from this person is awful, negative posts about blogging and bloggers and how annoying everything {and everyone} is all the time. I just couldn't take it anymore.
Then, I was having a quick email chat with my childhood friend April {
April James Interiors/Read Between Designs} and we were talking about how overwhelming and stressful
we can make blogging. I started thinking... and asking myself why I blog. Why am I stressing myself out so much over this little blog??
I will be the first to admit. I have blog envy. There, I said it. Let's just get it out in the open, shall we?
I don't have a patient bone in my body. I see these beautiful blogs that the blogger has been working on for years and years, they have tens of thousands of readers, can actually make a decent living from blogging {my husband and I both work full-time jobs}, they have sponsors that actually
pay them to do a project and use their products... I know you are with me. It seems
that is the goal in blogland. But, is that
my goal for this little blog?
I still remember finding my very first DIY blog. I won't post any names, but I was smitten instantly. She has eleventy zillion readers/followers. She's kinda funny, her family is cute... but the more I read her blog I just can't for the life of me figure out
why. I see far more creative and funnier people out there. The more I see of her recent posts I wonder what is going on. The whole idea of most of our blogs {since we aren't rich} is to make our homes comfortable and pretty on small budgets. Part of her blog name implies that she is thrifty. Lately, her posts have been about pretty big ticket projects that {most} of us only dream of being able to afford. If it were me, I'd be excited too... and blog all over blogland about how dreamy it is to do such drastic things. I can't relate to her anymore. Honestly, it gets me down and I don't want to read her anymore.
It brings me back to the real question... why did I start blogging in the first place??
For fun. Straight up. Because I
enjoy it.
Somewhere along the line {for some of us, others can keep perspective on things} it gets out of control.
I'm trying to refocus.
Do I ever think my blog will have eleventy zillion readers? No. And on that subject... what in the heck does it matter how many
followers a blog has anyway?? It seems to be a status to some bloggers. Seriously?!? I use it to
follow my favorite blogs. If I follow you, I read your blog. I may not always comment, but I do try. If you follow my blog... I certainly hope you didn't do it to get me as a number for your blog. I hope you actually come and read {and hopefully enjoy} my blog.
Do I ever think I will make money off my blog? {can you hear me laughing} Hell no.
We do linky parties and stalk other linky parties in attempts to get readers. I'm guilty of it. I didn't know until recently that is considered rude behavior. Really? Wow. I'm quite honored when someone asks me to join their party... but I guess I get it now. Numbers.
So... what it comes down to is: I will blog because it makes me happy... not for the numbers or the pats on the back.
If you are here... I love you. You kick ass. You rock my world. Truly. Every comment makes my heart leap. I want you to know that.
My blog posts may not be as many. I'm not going to stress myself out over this. It's supposed to be fun. I will still have my linky party but I'm not going to stalk anyone. If you link up... you rock my world.
I consider you my friends... and I hope we are still friends.
XOXO